February 05, 2017

Crisis in Life: Using Positive Ideation to Help People

Crisis in Life
by the Great World Philosopher Jesse
article featured on Jesse's Life Blog

Life makes it a habit or regularly beating people up. People have dreams and life interferes. Every disappointment results in more pain and suffering and more withdraw from life.

Eventually bitterness and rage takes over a person. Their new personality is one of pain, suffering, defiance, resistance, and conflict.

It is human to care. However, a person needs more than a person who cares. A person who knows how to lead is required.

We have to take them on the journey from hopelessness and disappointment to peace, tranquility, and enjoyment.

The above statement means that we must present the “principles of success” in an attractive manner. They must choose to want the change.

The values that we promote are as follows:

GOD

Everything in life begins with God. Today, the modern media culture works hard at convincing people that God is not real. The truth is that God is real. He cares and wants us to have the best life He offers us.

FUN

This God wants us to have a life of fun. “I have come so you may have life and have it more abundantly”. We can experience fun in life by pursuing “Simple Healthy Pleasures of Life” such as good friends, good family, good music, good meals, praise, worship, and everything else that is good and decent in life.

Relaxation Therapy

Many people cannot even consider “fun” because of their psychology turmoil. It is helpful to find a quiet place just to relax, settles our emotions, and clear our minds.

Emotional Management

Once we are relaxed, we can start working through our emotions. To manage our emotions we just to have figure out if what we are feeling is justified or some thing we are creating in our own minds.

If it is not justified than we just to stop scaring our selves with our own thoughts and concentrate on what we actually have control over in our lives.

If it is justified, is it the result of something some one is doing to us or is the emotion the result of some thing we are doing. We can correct our thoughts. We cannot control others.

Cognitive Restructuring

In order to put our emotions in order, we have to put our thoughts in order We have to stop seeing things as negative. Issues of life are just challenges. We all have the necessary skills to think through a challenge and make a good choice.

We can think, organize, plan, and act. In this process, we should set manageable goals. With every personal accomplishment, we feel good, and our confidence grows.

Growth in confidence leads to a positive growth in Self Esteem. This leads to a positive improvement in mood.

This is what is bugging people. Bad mood leads to pain and suffering. The person without hope hurts a lot. No one wants to hurt. Every one searches for relief from pain and suffering.
Everyone wants to stop the pain and suffering. When we realize we can be our own best friend and start working for a better life we become empowered. We should believe in our selves. Being positive, leads to peace, love, and joy.

We just have to choose to dedicate ourselves to personally successful lives. I define success as “the human experience where a person is able to meet the challenges of life”. Success is not billions of dollars in the bank. Success in life is being able to enjoy life no matter where we find our selves.

As I said everything starts with God. All a person has to do to have a personal relationship with God is to tell God I repent of my sins, Please Forgive me, I believe in you, I need you, I love you, and Jesus Christ I accept you as my Lord and Savior.

God is love. God is peace and joy. God is the answer to all our questions. God is the wise leader who can take us through the journey from pain and suffering to peace and comfort and make it a pleasant and enjoyable experience.

Positive Ideation

Positive “ideation” is thinking positive. This involves being hopeful and realistic. Being realistic means being grateful for what we have and using what we have in order to enjoy life.

Apostle of the Lord

It is good to care. A person in crisis needs more than Teddy Bear comfort. They need a wise Teacher who can lead them from pain and suffering to comfort and joy. An apostle of the lord, called by the lord, to serve the lord is a Teacher.

Practice the principles above. We must be able to recite them from memory. Understand that you are having a conversation with the person you are trying to help. Be compassionate and be wise.


There will be resistance. Some people will want to fight. Many you will just have to leave alone. However, for those who are willing to listen and try be a strong and well informed servant.




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