An Idiot Man's Simple Guide To Romance.

There are many benefits to having a happy wife.  You will feel better from the reduced tension.  Your wife’s joy will give you joy.

It is tragic that many people know how to have an industrial marriage.  They know how to pay bills, buy groceries, do laundry, and perform other tasks of marriage.

Enjoying marriage for the duration of the marriage seems to be a great challenge for many married couples. We are nothing more than what our culture made us.  Our inability to interact in a healthy and enjoyable manner with our spouse is the result of all the bad emotions and bad philosophies we collected throughout life.

Therefore, we need to evaluate our attitude and life philosophy.  Once we are a healthy person we can go about enjoying our marriage.  A healthy person is positive, optimistic, and realistic.  A healthy person focuses on the good end enjoys life.  A happy marriage is part of an enjoyable life.

Romance is a big part of a happy marriage.  The husband and the wife both have a need for healthy intimacy.  I am not talking about sex.  Get your head out of the gutter.

We enjoy conversation and humor.  We enjoy hugs and kisses. Looking in to the eyes of our spouse should fill our heart with joy.  Being close to our spouse should also fill us with joy.

Many men do not know how to flirt with their wives.  They are self-conscious about how their wife will react at their efforts at humor.  In addition, they are afraid of paying their wife a compliment. Some men are even unable to perform the basics of conversation.

Interacting with your wife is part of being romantic. You can tell you wife interesting stories, jokes, and compliments.

Receiving gifts is enjoyable for most of us.  Giving your wife a gift is a romantic act.

Preparing a romantic meal is also romantic. A romantic meal is a meal that is delicious and were both of you are able to share pleasant conversation.  The traditional romantic meal is spaghetti, a garden salad, and garlic bread.  I personally do not believe alcoholic beverages need to be involved.

It is also helpful to accompany your wife to social gatherings. You have to be charming and pleasant.

Yes, your wife will ask you to dance.  Dancing is part of romance. Therefore, learn to cook and learn to dance.

No one wants to be with a couch occupying robot. Life has its stressors.  Resolve your issues and get to the business of enjoying life.

A person who has a positive attitude knows how to enjoy the simple pleasures of life.  Romance is one of these simple pleasures. Again, being romantic with your girlfriend or spouse-which ever applies-reduces stress and offers joy.